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This blog gathers gentle, in-depth articles on birth trauma, pregnancy after loss, tokophobia and perinatal anxiety. You’ll find practical tools from CBT, compassion-focused and trauma-informed approaches, to help you understand what you’re feeling and how to cope day to day.
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TOKOPHOBIA | PREGNANCY AFTER LOSS | BIRTH TRAUMA | BABY LOSS | EMDR | NICU | allGuest Post: Navigating Postpartum Anxiety After Loss
Bringing your baby home after an anxiety-filled pregnancy should feel like a relief — but what if the worry doesn't go away? Postpartum anxiety after loss is more common than you might think. Learn how to navigate this journey with compassion, practical tips, and the reassurance that you're not alone.
Still Struggling After a Traumatic Birth? Why It Doesn't Just Get Better - And What Actually Helps
How to heal from traumatic birth: A gentle guide to recovery
A traumatic birth can leave lasting emotional and physical echoes - even if your baby is healthy. This gentle, therapist-written guide explains why you still feel stuck, how birth trauma and PTSD affects the nervous system, and what real healing looks like (with or without therapy).
How to Cope with Scan Anxiety After Miscarriage: Practical Support & Tools
How to Cope with Scan Anxiety After Miscarriage: Practical Support & Tools
Sitting outside the scan clinic 45 minutes early, heart racing, hands clenched — not because you're "just nervous," but because your body remembers the last time. This isn’t ordinary anxiety. If you’ve tried breathing exercises, distractions, and positive thinking but nothing works, you’re not broken. This blog post walks you through why scan anxiety after loss needs more than generic advice — and what actually helps.
Anxiety in Pregnancy After Miscarriage: CBT & EMDR Therapy That Actually Helps.
How to Cope with Anxiety in Pregnancy After Miscarriage?
Pregnancy after miscarriage brings more than hope - it often brings anxiety that lingers quietly in the background of every scan, symptom, and silence. If you're finding it hard to relax into this pregnancy, you're not alone. This article explores why anxiety after loss is so common, how it shows up in everyday moments, and how EMDR and CBT therapy can offer gentle, practical support without minimising your pain or pushing forced positivity.
Navigating the Emotional Turbulence of Pregnancy After Loss: Coping Strategies and Support
Pregnancy after a loss is often an emotional whirlwind, filled with fear, anxiety, and grief. Unlike a first pregnancy, where joy and excitement might dominate, Pregnancy After Loss (PAL) is marked by a constant undercurrent of worry and a profound sense of vulnerability. In this post, I explore the unique challenges that come with PAL, from the shifting beliefs about pregnancy and parenthood to the emotional toll of navigating antenatal appointments that once brought joy but now carry the weight of past trauma.

